Clinical
Corner Ð Helping with Homework
Homework
You
hated it as a kid and you've come to loathe it nearly as much as a parent.
Homework can be easy to tame if you plan ahead and then follow these simple
tips.
Know
The Requirements
Make
sure that you and your child fully understand the teacher's homework policy.
Most teachers hand out a document early in the school year that explains the
details about the types of assignments and subject requirements. Understand the
basic facts about grading of homework, frequency of assignments and amount of
work to expect each evening. Encourage your child to ask questions if s/he is
not sure about any assigned work.
It's
Not Your Job
Remember
that the homework is the responsibility of the student, not the parent. Set your
child up for success, but let them do the work on their own. Your job is to
advise and encourage.
Time
It Right
Schedule
a time to do assignments that suits your child's learning personality. If your
child arrives home famished and exhausted, take time for a nutritious snack and
quiet time before tackling the toughest work. If your child prefers to get
homework behind them and then play, plan for that. There is nothing wrong with
splitting up homework into shorter segments with a comfortable break in between.
Minimize
Distractions
Choose
a homework area that eliminates as many noisy distractions as possible. Pay
attention to your child's learning style. There are some kids who actually work
well with a CD blaring nearby!
Stock
Up On Supplies
If
you gather as many typical homework supplies as possible and store them in one
place, you'll save yourself from at least a few last minute dashes to the
store. Be warned though that it's inevitable that a teacher will spring a crazy
project on your child that will require you to tramp all over town late some
Sunday night to find an item that you never anticipated needing.
Read!
If
your child has no homework, encourage reading! Be sure your children see you
reading more than cereal boxes. Parents who read raise natural readers and
readers succeed in school. Some schools require students to read a certain
number of minutes each evening. You might want to adopt this policy for your
own family. Read to each other or read silently, but READ!
Pay
Attention And Praise
Review
your child's completed homework and then talk to your child about what you
observe. Homework gives a great insight into what's going on in your child's
life. You may notice an aptitude that will surprise you. Or you may realize
your child needs help. If you do, work with your child until you are sure they
understand, or talk to the teacher to see what kind of help is available at
school. Be sure to praise your child whenever possible.
Make
Learning Fun
Memorization
homework can be a great game. Quiz your child on vocabulary, spelling, math and
more when in the car or waiting somewhere. Let them quiz YOU!
Take
Breaks
If
you notice your child is frustrated or overwhelmed, offer a rest, a snack, and
an empathetic ear.
Get
Help
Find
out if there is homework help offered through your school and encourage your
child to use these opportunities for assistance. These may include a homework
hotline, online resources, library resources and more.
Remember
that you are teaching important life lessons when you encourage independent
work, organization, perseverance and problem solving. All of this can be
accomplished by making homework a priority at your house.